Friday, October 22, 2004

The Best Food in the World

Sushi! I had sushi for dinner yesterday. Man, it was great! I went there with Gina, Julia, Cippi, and Ci Henny. Cippi and I are regular customers, we even have our "membership" card. So we're pretty much recognized over there. Because of that, and also because Gina is an employee there [yesterday's her day off], we got a lot of specials yesterday including their new menu, lettuce wrapped sushi, sounds weird but yummy! Gina, Cippi and I are fans of salmon, so they gave us lots of salmon sushi, more than 30 pieces. Luckily, it's all you can eat, so we don't have to worry how much we should pay =P

A Theory About Relationship

A married-soon-to-be-divorced woman stated that "If you want your relationship to lasts, find a man who loves you more than you love him." She believes that it's bad in a relationship if the woman loves more than the man. Why? Because then the man will disrespect you, cheats on you, care less about you, and finally leave you. He'll take you for granted.

At some point, I agree with her. Trying not to take anything for granted, especially good things that we have in our lives, is a HARD thing to do. It doesn't have to be something big. I remember when I had a goldfish, I was a little girl, and I believed that goldfish couldn't die. At first, I was excited and playing with it all the time, but then I got bored and started to ignore it. When my goldfish died, I cried and cried and asked my mom why. It was only a goldsfish, but what if it's your parents, best friend, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife?

On the other hand, I believe that it's much better if the man and woman love and respect each other equally. Cliche? Well, think about it. If I have a boyfriend/husband who loves me more than I love him, I'll become his obssession, he'll get jealous easily, I might not allowed to have any male friend, and that's not cool. I just want a normal human being to spend my lifetime with.

Of course, the married-soon-to-be-divorced woman doesn't agree with me. She still stick to what she believes. Is there anyone out there who has the same belief, or is is just a sad married-soon-to-be-divorced woman talking?