What Would You Do...

...when you miss or love the person you're not supposed to?

I don't know how to answer that.

The most typical answer for that situation will be follow your heart because it never lies. Really? Bukannya justru cewek tuh emang selalu ngikutin apa yang di hati, bukan yang logical? And bukannya gara2 itu juga, banyak cewek yang ngalamin cinta buta, alias nerimoooo aja padahal in reality tuh cowoknya bejat, kurang ajar, gak tau diri, and gak pantes banget deh buat dicintai.

Gimana kalo kasusnya kangen with your ex? Kangen tiba2 pengen ketemu after all these years of not talking period. You don't have to know why you suddenly miss him/her. But then, you might realized that you actually still care and love him; can't really describe what kind of love, and he might not as bad as my example above.

"I shouldn't call him, should I?"

If you're single, then there's no reason why you shouldn't call him unless you had a really bad break up with him. But you probably need to think about something really good to talk about. Talking about the past might not be a good idea, talk more about the present, what you've been up to, and ask about him too. Be prepare to get disappointed. You haven't talked to the person for years, he might not the same person he used to be, he's probably married by now, or maybe a few years back he found out that he's a homosexual. Just don't expect anything.

If you're attached, now this is difficult. Follow your heart could be an answer. It all depends on your situation with your other half, and your past experience with the ex.

So I guess I don't know the answer.

[I'm sorry, I tried]